Columnist Audrey Irvine writes in her column that she's fine being single at her age. Her family and friends are desperate to find her a spouse and try to set her up on dates. When she went to a barbeque at her friend's and saw a guy that they were trying to set her up with, she asked what they had in common besides a pulse and her friend answered, "Single."
She believes in your 20's, people are busy with parties, joining sororities and graduating on time. So no one cares about dating. When you're in your 30's, it's all about work and you don't have time for a relationship. However, by the age of 35- if you aren't dating, engaged or married- it's clear to everyone that you need help.
I like this article because it reminds me of myself. I'm only twenty years old and I'm not trying to find my soulmate or anything but sometimes I feel like I'm pressured to. I'm the youngest of four kids, my oldest brother and sister married in their mid twenties and my older brother is dating. I'm no in a relationship. I haven't been in since February. But the question of my life seems to be, "Why are you single?" or "Are you dating?" "You don't want a boyfriend?" But my favorite one from guys is "Why is a beautiful girl like you single?"
Because I run into scumbags like you. I'm busy. I go to school and I work two jobs. Sometimes I feel like I don't even have time for my family. And my family comes first of course. I've had my share of dating guys, having boyfriends and a serious relationship. But guys are either: broke, unlicensed, have no car, stupid or busy on that player status. IT'S TRUE!
When I have girl friends or even my brother come running to me because they're sad about the opposite sex, I sit there and wonder why. Or how does it come to this point? If the person doesn't make you happy, why are you with them? People are sad in relationships all the time and I believe you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else. But what is this void- this feeling that a lot of people have that they need filled by another person? I don't need anyone to complete me, I complete myelf. And I'm happy, happier than I have ever been. And whenever Prince Charming decides to come, he'll come. He can take his time for now.
Here is the article:
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/11/11/rrants.exhibit.a/index.html